Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

January 1, 2018

Christmas 2017, part 2



Well, I thought our Christmas was made but more happened, so here's Part 2. 
Check out this post for Part 1.

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This last summer, Ethan and I sat in our 500 sq ft apartment together to pray over our finances.

We had just moved from South Dakota to Alaska and had used all our resources (and then some) to return. Just two hours outside our final destination, we were in an accident and had to leave our utility trailer with all our belongings in a town three hours away because it was undrivable.

Anyway, back to our prayer session.

As we sat down to pray that day, Ethan took his place on the floor with his back to the wall. I sat down on the couch in the living room, and we began to ask the Lord to help us figure out insurance issues for our trailer and wisdom as we began our new work.

I heard a shuffle from the side of the room, and when I looked over, Ethan was holding an empty garbage can in his lap. Thinking it was odd, I whispered, Why are you holding a trash can?

Without missing a beat, Ethan replied: My hands are too small.

Knowing this was a moment I didn't want to forget, I set my phone on silent and snapped a picture.


To receive what God wants to give, my hands are too small.


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I was reminded of this story a couple days ago, as Ethan and I stepped back to think about our Christmas this year. Not only have unexpected finances come in, but friends have blessed us with food, gifts, and surprises in such an overwhelming way that we've felt almost awkward receiving them.

Why such abundance? Our needs are covered, we don't have to have these other things.

And yet...

Our wood pile was low one day when a friend stopped by and offered to bring us more. Why yes, thank you! Not once, but twice that happened.

Maya wanted an outfit for her doll for Christmas. Without knowing it, a friend ended up giving us a bag of doll clothes, since her daughter had pared down to make room for other gifts.

Wow: thank you!


The Tuesday before Christmas, one of our YWAM friends stopped by with presents for our girls.

How kind of you!




On Friday, a friend stopped by to visit and ended up gifting us with presents and more food.

Wha? Okay, thank you!

Inwardly I'm thinking, All right this is good. This is enough. This is more than we need... maybe I need to find someone to share with?!


On Sunday, I led worship at our church and we hung out afterward to visit with friends and enjoy some snacks. When I checked my phone, there was a message.

Hi Mekeisha, this is Bill and Susan. I don't know if you remember me and my wife, but we met you guys a while back.

Hmm, that name doesn't sound familiar.

Anyway, we have a couple packages for you and your family that we'd like to drop by your house, but it looks like you're not home right now. If you could, give us a call and let me know a good time we could drop it off. Thanks!

I gave the fellow a call back, and let him know when we would be home. Later when they stopped by I didn't recognize him or his wife, but their kindness was beautiful. As they brought their gift to the door, they explained: Every Christmas my wife and I like to pick four or five families that we can bless with a Christmas breakfast; it's something we used to do back home in Ohio. This year, we thought of your family!

And with that, they passed me their gift and were gone.

Inside the bags, I found all the trimmings for Christmas breakfast, along with a lovely gift book and Christmas card.





Half an hour later that day, another friend stopped by to drop off Christmas stockings for Ethan and I, along with a gift for the girls. Earlier in the week, she had texted: I noticed you only have four stockings up. Do you and Ethan have stockings? 

Well we do, I explained, but I misplaced one, so I didn't hang either of them up.

Oh, but do you have stocking stuffers for each other?

I laughed out loud- No. (I mean, as long as our girls have gifts, nothing else really matters, right?)

She then proceeded to tell me she wanted to bless us with our own stockings - filled, mind you.



She even included a gift for the girls, which made my heart as happy as any child's.

Precious Moments dolls!! I didn't even know there was such a thing!!


These gifts are just a few of the many we received this last month: 

Someone gifted us with a tote full of fabric so the girls can continue to make their own doll clothes.

Another day we headed to the theater for a free matinee, and a friend bought drinks and snacks for all my girls.

One of our friends bought all the makings for sushi and came over to teach us how to make our own sushi rolls. With smoked salmon. And crab. And pickled radish from New Jersey.

Lularoe leggings arrived in the mail one day for my girls and I, gifted from a faraway friend.

Post-Christmas surprises from family showed up in the mail.

Unexpected financial blessings from people kept popping up - in the mail, online, in person.

All of these gifts- small and large - have added up to remind me once more- God cares for us.

That's powerful because I have been overwhelmed a lot this last year.

Overwhelmed with moving.

Overwhelmed with financial stress.

Overwhelmed with physical issues, in finding out my thyroid is underactive.

Overwhelmed with ministry demands, homeschool issues, and the list just goes on.

I mean the word overwhelm means to bury or drown beneath a huge mass. And honestly, I've felt like I was drowning a lot this last year.

But another definition of overwhelm is this: to give too much of a thing to (someone); inundate.
I feel like God loves to remind me every Christmas: 

I am with you. I am for you. I will provide for every need and more.

God seems intent on ending this year with an overwhelming awareness of His goodness, so I am determined to take note of it. Looks like Ethan was right. 

Our hands were too small.

December 19, 2017

Christmas 2017

Sooo... I feel like Christmas is a blazing train. Once Thanksgiving dinner is tucked away, Christmas season comes rushing in, and before you know it, the trash bin is overflowing with wrapping paper and we are setting New Year's resolutions.

It goes fast.

But this is a season I love to savor. 

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This is the season of Emmanuel, a time to remember that God is with us! That's a truth worth slowing down for. So, I pull out my old stories to re-remember Christmases past: the time we had to fly home Christmas Eve, but couldn't go home because the electricity had been knocked out by an ice storm.

That was Christmas 2008.

Then there's the Christmas that was preceded by one of the worst summers of my adult life:
the Christmas of 2009. (It had an amazing end- one of my favorite stories, actually.)

Then there's this year.

This year we've been leaning into Jesus. After moving away from - and back to - Alaska, we poured all our resources into one task: returning to missions. At times, I've felt like Elijah pouring water on the altar so he could call fire down from heaven to lick it up! Life is challenging enough without adding to its difficulties, but here we are. I'm learning that lean times are often open doors to God's provision and care.

At the beginning of the month, we were feeling strained. In spite of Ethan's side jobs and our growing list of ministry partners, we were struggling financially. A friend of ours asked if we like salmon. Of course! They were cleaning out their freezer for deer meat and needed more space, so I headed over to pick up a box of red salmon. Wow!

Later, we visited some friends who moved here this last summer. We decided to share our bounty with them, so I tucked some red salmon fillets and halibut into a cooler as a gift for them. In return, they sent us home with three whole chickens that they had raised and butchered themselves.

Three whole chickens!

In the first couple weeks of December, different friends randomly dropped by to gift us with food. One night, I decided to pull out my scale to weigh what had been given to us. I couldn't weigh the pantry items because those things blend in, but the meat? I pulled all the frozen packages out and set them in a basket on my scale.

Ground deer
Stew meat
A whole turkey
Moose meat
Red salmon fillets
Halibut
Three whole chickens
Cornish game hens

After weighing everything, I added it up: One hundred twenty-five pounds! I was dumbfounded.

Then I headed over to the piano, sat down and played:

Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness!
  Morning by morning new mercies I see;
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided—
    Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!

As a family, we sang worship songs for nearly an hour before sending the girls to bed.

A few days later, Ethan attended a night of worship night at church. When he returned later that night, he announced, "I have something to show you. Just let me know when you're ready to cry!"

When he passed me the envelope, I laughed out loud (and then I cried). Someone had gifted us with Christmas money:


I felt undone all over again.

Every year when Christmas season begins, I wonder, What will He do this year? God seems to delight in blessing our family, especially around the holidays. It makes me think, Giving must be God's love language. 

It's very humbling to realize that as much as we have given to God - He always gives more.

You see, we are not God's favorites. I share these stories so you can see: This is what God is like. This is how He cares for His children. What He has done for us, He will do for you. 

I think Psalm 25:3 says it very well:

No one who hopes in you will ever be put to shame.


Which means, when we trust in Him, He will come through! #Noregrets

As we draw closer to Christmas this year, I pray that you will see the beauty of a humble God, one who does not think it beneath Him to put on His serving apron (yet again) to answer our prayers.



December 7, 2015

Christmas 2008



Seven years ago, Ethan and I were packing up to head home to Oregon for Christmas. We had just spent the last four months in Tennessee and were looking forward to being in our own place again. However, the night before we were supposed to fly we both got sick and spent the majority of our time in front of the toilet. After we put the girls down for the night, Ethan awakened every hour to throw up. Needless to say - that was a long night. At 5 in the morning, he called the airport to make sure our flight was still flying, only to discover the flight had been canceled, and we were now scheduled to fly out Christmas Eve.

I was so frustrated! I just wanted to get home, pull out our box of Christmas to decorate and go shopping! I already knew what I wanted to get my two girls - they were young then, so I had decided a new pair of pajamas and a dolly would suit them fine. I had even made out a grocery list and was ancy to get back into my own kitchen to fix Christmas dinner. However, after a few phone calls with friends, we discovered that our little neighborhood had an ice storm and had lost all power. Even when we got home, we would not get to stay there for Christmas, because there would be no heat or electricity!

I'm pretty sure I cried. 

Seriously?!?

We ended up flying Christmas Eve and spent the night with a friend. After arriving, Ethan's cousin from Washington called. Would we like to join them for Christmas? YES please! We drove up and were blessed to spend the holiday with family after all. They were even thoughtful enough to get the girls presents - matching pajamas and a doll for each of them.

The exact gifts I wanted to get but hadn't the time because of being sick and traveling. 

It wasn't until later that I came across my grocery list that I realized she served the EXACT meal I had planned to make too! -ham, au gratin potatoes, green beans and rolls.... and I cried again, that God had shown us such thoughtfulness.

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I love that story because it reminds me that even when we can't see, God is working things out to show us some kindness.

Thanks God.

December 22, 2014

How to Take the Perfect Christmas Card Photo



Every time I do pictures with my four girls, everything goes so smoothly. 
I lay out their outfits, they dress and fix their hair without a fuss, we step outside and 

SNAP!

The perfect Christmas card photo:



NOT.

Usually, I take a few of these to get started:




After a few minutes of hearing the baby screech, Ethan mercifully comes outside and coaxes the girls to Show me your Teeth!!

Then I get pictures like this one:


Sofia:I think they're in here somewhere. 
Jasmine: YOU MEAN LIKE THIS??

Not so very flattering.

Of course I have to toss the blurry ones:



Oh yes, don't forget the part where your Christmas sign fell down:



Uh oh!
Ethan fixed the sign but neglected to share his coffee with the baby.
Terrible mistake.




Sofia, look an animal cracker!!! Do you want an animal cracker?!? Oh yum!!! Animal cracker???
Complete meltdown temporarily averted.

Rosalina, look at me!! Look here!!


Open your Eyes!!

Everyone smile!


Jasmine, you have to squat down or I can't see you...


Look over here!

Hello?




Okay nevermind....




Oh look- it's a flying elephant!!


Or not....



So in case you haven't been reading in between the lines, here are a few tips to help you take that *Perfect* Christmas photo.

#1. Hire an entertainer. Or for a cheaper option grab your husband or friend or random          neighbor person to make those kids smile!!  
           (Just don't ask them to show their teeth. That's NOT the same as smiling.)

#2. Bring animal crackers. And gumdrops. And possibly coffee. Whatever will   
         appease the taste buds of your tiny tyrant. Just don't leave it out on open display, or that is all   
         they will want. Keep it hidden until things start to unravel, and THEN break out your secret   
         weapon of choice. 

#3. Take LOTS of pictures. Use the burst mode, and Fire away!! It's okay if they get 
          grumpy or decide to be silly, because later (believe it or not) you will look back at those 
          not-so-perfect moments and be just as delighted at those memories as you are over that    
          *Perfect Picture* you actually decide to share.

#4. Have fun! Be silly. Celebrate with hot cocoa and cookies afterward! You don't want your           kids to loathe picture time, so make it an event worth celebrating. 

#5. Use PicMonkey to fix the sign.  Because who has time to make a perfect sign            when you're wrangling littles? For reals tho. PicMonkey will let you add perfect calligraphy,                elves, presents, or even reindeer antlers. It's worth trying, anyway. 

By the way, the *Perfect Picture* is more of an illusion than a reality. If you capture the ones you love, and you are all having fun in the process, how could it not be perfect?

Well, now you know.

Merry Christmas!!!


December 10, 2014

Tis the season

Christmas is here!!